Practicing before, freezing during, doubting after.
Every pause and every tone gets analyzed.
Agreeing first, questioning later.
Ready for every outcome except the good one.
“Wait, did I say something wrong?”
If your mind is racing, your body is feeling it. It deserves a voice too.
Overthinking usually guards a fear that "if I get this wrong, I lose."
Bring the hard convo you keep rehearsing here first, where it’s safe to get it wrong.
When the alarm is older than the situation, EMDR helps it catch up to the present.
Teens and adults, in person in Pasadena or online anywhere in California.
50-minute sessions, $225. 80-minute sessions, $360. Private pay, HSA/FSA, or out-of-network benefits with a superbill. Good Faith Estimate on request.
Cancel at least 24 hours ahead to avoid the full fee. Everyone gets one free “Life Happens Pass.”
Research keeps finding that the relationship between client and therapist is one of the strongest predictors of how therapy goes, often more than the method. So fit matters. Here’s an honest picture of when this tends to work best.
Want a warm, direct therapist, and deep insight work
Are curious about what you notice between sessions
Can commit to weekly sessions for a stretch of time
Are comfortable with private pay or out-of-network benefits
Manualized, step-by-step treatment every week
In-network insurance only
A guru to “fix it” for you
Occasional drop-in sessions
Quick fixes and IG-reel advice
A short call to see if we’re a fit, and why now.
Your story, the issue, the background, and your goals.
Weekly sessions: insight, practice, and what’s shifting.
Goals shift as your life does. EMDR joins when it helps.
Maybe both. If being “on” all the time costs you sleep, ease, or closeness, it’s worth a look.
If it were just breathing exercises, you’d be doing them on YouTube for free. We go after what the anxiety is protecting.
No. If medication might help, I can refer you to a psychiatrist and coordinate care.
Find answers to more frequently asked questions here.